#treatyoself for Valentine's Day

So, Valentine's Day has the potential to be one of the most annoying holidays out there, especially if you're single. Even if you're in a relationship, it can be annoying to feel like you have to go all-out on the romantic night out. Like, why just this one day you have to be all romantic and sexy when you should probably feel the feelings all year round?

In any case, I think that whether you're single or in a relationship, you should treat yourself for Valentine's Day. And frankly, any day of the year.

From top, clockwise from left:

1. Journelle Natalia Teddy
Journelle's namesake line is 100% incredible, and this teddy is probably the piece that takes it over 100%. Decadent lace and cutouts in all the right places.Yassss.

2. Morgan Lane Lanie Flowers Sleep Mask
Every girl needs a sleep mask. It is absolutely an essential for home and travel, and my life has totally changed since I started using one. I love this one from Morgan Lane with her illustration of Lanie in a field of flowers.

3. Chinti and Parker Cashmere Track Pants
Karl Lagerfeld said, "Sweatpants are a sign of defeat. You lost control of your life so you bought some sweatpants." But you know what, I'm pretty sure he was talking about those cotton sweatpants that give you dumpy butt, and not these slimmer ones in gorgeous grey cashmere. Throw on a long tee, a leather jacket and some moto boots and you're good to go to brunch.

4. Eres La Pagode Richlieu Leavers Lace-Trimmed Silk-Satin Playsuit
The ultimate "I love me" present. Actually, that was the yellow diamond that Richard gave to Samantha in Sex and the City, but this Eres playsuit is pretty damn close. Anything Eres is the ultimate "I love me" present in the lingerie universe, let's be honest.

5. Diptyque 'Baies' Black Candle
I know there's been that whole expensive candle debate, but Diptyque ones are truly worth it. The scents linger after you blow it out, they burn clean, and the glass is beautiful to reuse afterwards. This favorite scent looks super-chic for any home in black glass.

Holiday Wishlist: Jess Tice, Artist

Jess Tice is an artist (and her paper pop-up skills are so crazy cool), who also happens to have beautiful taste in lingerie. A supporter of PLU since the start, her enthusiasm for pretty little everythings is such an inspiration and reminds me why I love writing about lingerie. So excited to share her wish list for a beautiful, relaxing holiday season!

1. Morgan Lane Orion Frankie Shirt

I hope this little number is under my tree this year!  It's ever so versatile for work and play, dressed up or down.

2. Jennie Kwon Diamond Septum Cuff

This is for my rock-and-roll side… which is just edgy enough to wear this on a daily basis but not actually take the piercing plunge.

3. Soap Cherié Neroli Bergamot Mineral Soak

I think everyone needs a ritual for the end of the day. Mine includes a cocktail and slipping into this luxurious Dead Sea mineral bath salt—nothing relaxes me quite like this. And I love supporting local businesses—Soap Cherié is in Brooklyn.

4. Dita Von Teese Madame X Set

Dita hits all the right marks with her lingerie line. I love the color of this set in Parisienne Blue, and how it just oozes sex appeal. And now that I'm a grown up, I'll actually wear the set together.

5. Intelligent Nutrients Absolute Jasmine

This jasmine perfume is divine! The smell isn't overpowering and not too floral. It's the perfect mysterious scent. I have to admit that whenever I stop at ABC Carpet, I have to 'try' it on. 

 Shop Jess' Wishlist:
1. Morgan Lane Orion Frankie Shirt, $138 at Journelle.com.
2. Jennie Kwon Diamond Septum Cuff, $210 at CatbirdNYC.com.
3. Soap Cherie Neroli Bergamot Bath Soak, $28 at SoapCherie.com.

4. Dita Von Teese Madame X Set: Underwire Bra, $70; Bikini, $42; Garter, $52. All available at Journelle.com.

5. Intelligent Nutrients Absolute Jasmine, $99 at ABChome.com.